Random thought of the day:

Most women tend to balloon after marriage : the kids, the job, and having a family to tend to usually leaves little time for the woman to pay too much attention to her looks, 'cos that is the least of her worries.

I know that many men, because of this ballooning, get progressively unattracted to their wives. In extreme cases, men might be lured by the younger, and perkier women. They probably look at their not-so-attractive-as-before-wives and think: " Look at her. How could she let herself get to this state?? Hair in a disarray, big hips and she doesn't even bother with make-up anymore! She's such a far-cry from the woman i married! *gags*"

I KNOW THAT MEN ARE HEARTLESS, SUPERFICIAL CADS.

But what i want to know is this - Are there good men out there that look at their wives, after they have packed on the pounds and look increasingly disheveled, and think: "She bore my kids, she takes care of us, she cooks our meals, and THIS (referring to her size) is the result of it. She must really love me to have sacrificed so much. And knowing this makes me love her so much more."

Any male out there who is like that? Even ONE?

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