In response to a dear friend's bout of insecurity over her boyfriend's living arrangements overseas, i said: "Don't worry, our boyfriends aren't R."

As a result, her insecurities suddenlty dissipitated.

And she said something that I felt made a really good relationship philosophy:

If your boyfriend doesn't act like R,
Then you have no reason to act like C.

Kudos to you, friend!;)

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